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Lisa Larsen

How to open one's heart to love when we've been hurt or disappointed

Any advice about opening oneself to friendship when one's tendency is towards perfectionism? I get on a cognitive level that no one is perfect and no one has all the answers, does everything right, etc. And yet, at the heart level it is hard to accept imperfection and allow people to be who they are.

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  • Nikhil
    @Lisa According to me we always try to find a perfectionist because we think we deserve the best and so does everyone else. But the point is, we don't understand that perfectionism doesn't lie somewhere outside, it's within us. The moment we start working on our inner self, our emotions start getting into our control. Check this amazing video on dealing with difficult emotions - https://www.ceekr.com/videos/view/2898